A list of things that didn't kill me
a memoir
Jason Schmidt wasn't surprised when he came home one day during his junior year of high school and found his father, Mark, crawling around in a giant pool of blood. Things like that had been happening a lot since Mark had been diagnosed with HIV, three years earlier. Jason's life with Mark was full of secrets--about drugs, crime, and sex. If the straights--people with normal lives--ever found out any of those secrets, the police would come. Jason's home would be torn apart. So the rule, since Jason had been in preschool, was never to tell the straights anything. A List of Things That Didn't Kill Me is a funny, disturbing memoir full of brutal insights and unexpected wit that explores the question: How do you find your moral center in a world that doesn't seem to have one?
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Fiction · Nonfiction
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- ISBN-13
- 978-0-3743-8013-7
- Language
- English
- Edition record
- OL27172202M
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Best when you want to settle into a longer reading experience.
Begin with its place in Fiction, then notice where the book resists that label.
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Mark one passage that sharpens the book's central concern and one that complicates it. That tension often reveals more than a quick summary.
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