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Coming out, Coming in

Nurturing the Well-Being and Inclusion of Gay youth in Mainstream Society

by Linda Goldman

Published 2007368 pagesISBN 978-0-4159-5824-0

"Coming Out, Coming In: Nurturing the Well-Being and Inclusion of Gay Youth in Mainstream Society describes the process of "coming In" to a welcoming and nurturing family, from both the teen's and the parents' perspective. Linda Goldman draws on her personal and professional experience as a school guidance counselor, child and adolescent therapist, parent, and a member of the national group PFLAG to build a common language and a new paradigm for understanding sexual orientation and gender identity as a part of mainstream culture." "Through the information, exercises, anecdotes, and extensive bibliography of additional resources provided in the book, parents, school administrators and educators, community groups and counselors will find the tools needed to create and maintain nurturing and safe environments for our LGBT youth."--BOOK JACKET.

Beyond its central premise, the book can be read through the connected lenses of LGBTQ+, Nonfiction. Those themes offer useful points of attention as the characters, ideas, or world develop, especially where the book complicates the expectations of its primary category.

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Themes to notice

LGBTQ+ · Nonfiction

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Balanced tone · Steady pace

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Reading lengthA standard-length read368 pages in this edition
Publication eraModernFirst published or edition dated 2007
Primary categoryLGBTQ+Also cataloged under Nonfiction
ISBN-13
978-0-4159-5824-0
Language
English
Edition record
OL10208780M
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Good to know

A comfortable full-length choice for steady daily reading.

Begin with its place in LGBTQ+, then notice where the book resists that label.

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Read for connection, not completion.

Mark one passage that sharpens the book's central concern and one that complicates it. That tension often reveals more than a quick summary.

Three questions to carry with you

  1. What does the central character want, and what do they misunderstand about that desire?
  2. Which detail or relationship changes how you interpret the story?
  3. What feeling or question does the book leave with you after the plot moves on?

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